Family break down

         As promised I am continuing the project of how moms are cutting off their children contact with their biological fathers.A drastic effect says psychologists Penelope Leach. Being bitter with Dad many moms will turn to denying inaction with Dad and denying the child of important developmental interaction.
         Many mothers are commonly bitter towards the Father and look for the opportunity to lash anyway they are able. Even knowing this technique of battle within a divorce most divorcing adults need to remember that their children need both parental figures.
         Most research shows that children of divorce will lie to the one parent ( the mother usually ) so the parent hears what they want even though the child genuinely loves both. This trend is something that is believed to be used to divide and disfranchise the American family unit. And encourages parents to be involved in litigation and evil actions where the only victims in the end are the children.
         Many experts strongly urge co-parenting and negotiations between both parents and avoid using the children as pawns in a game.The child's major developmental stages is between 16months to five years old. A missing father could have dire consequences in the long term. So parents need to ask themselves are they being selfish and only doing right by themselves or are they considering their childrens long term welfare.

      What a parent can do to reverse developmental delays of children of Divorce.

• Keep phone contact with the former spouse. Email , phone , text , video chat.
• Snail mail letters. United States Postal Service. Writing a letter to someone is a lost tradition and was the mode of communication prior to the age of computers.
• Scheduled visits. Plan day trips or evening visits. Always encourage your child to have contact with your spouse.
• Split holidays so the child gets to share the important holidays with both parents separately.

         This is not a exhaustive list of techniques for both parents to be involved. But it does help provide a solution instead of just pointing out the problem.